Selah

Shh.

You are talking too loudly.

God is trying to say something.

How to grow Goodness

Tough question.  How does God grow goodness is our lives?

I think this is one of those times where our co-operation is imperative.  We need to actively seek it out.

Ask.  Realise our need for goodness, and ask God to make us better people through the empowering of his Spirit.

Seek.  Seek not just His spirit, but also ways to be good.  Seek the face of God, but also the face of goodness.

Knock.  Don’t just sit there, go be good.

Good Goodness, and other Goodness

I think there are two kinds of goodness:  Cold goodness, which is when you are in the presence of somebody so good you are afraid of making a mistake; and warm goodness, where the person just shines goodness and makes you feel good being with them

Does that make sense?

I think Jesus was the second sort.  Where people could feel his goodness, like a shining light.  It lights up the darkness of your life, and makes you warm again, without burning you with its intensity.

Are we good?  Or just a goody-twoshoes?  Do we make people feel better about themselves, or just judged.

It is a tough one.

I hope I can be a little bit more of the good one than the other one.

God’s Goodness

God is good. 

It’s kind of his thing.

And the LORD passed by before him, and proclaimed, The LORD, The LORD God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth (Exodus 34:6)

We talk often about his Goodness and mercy in the word, both Old Testament and New.  We are told that he is the source of all Goodness, and that this is expressed as grace and mercy.

We need to learn to take on this goodness, because goodness comes only from God, and through His Spirit.  Outside of Him, we would never be good.

Selah

Selah

Goodness is…

What is Goodness?

When we talk about a good cup of coffee, or a good book, or a good nap, what we actually mean is … it did what it was supposed to.

We are good when we do what we are supposed to.  When we be the person, or people, that Go wants us to be, and made us to be.

Goodness is more than just kindness. 
Kindness is about helping, goodness is about doing the right thing.
Kindness gives a man bread, goodness does something about hunger.
Kindness reaches out a hand, goodness reaches out a heart.

Our goodness is measured, I believe, by how much we do what God calls us to do.

Kindness, just do it.

Kindness is one of the easiest things to develop.  Just start doing it, and don’t stop.

If you see a man fall into a hole, you don’t need to have the gift of helps to be or service to him, or the gift of being a great prayer warrior to pray for him, or the gift of evangelism to call others to come and help him.

You just need to be kind, and throw him a rope.  Just reach out, and help him where he stands.

You never know when you might be entertaining angels unaware.

Growing Kindness

This one is easy.  God put us in positions where we are given opportunities to be kind.

Of course, each of these is also an opportunity to not be kind. 

Kindness is one of those things that you can’t wait to feel it, you have to show it first.  Take every opportunity to be kind, and look for God-given opportunities.

God’s Kindness

What can we learn about Kindness from God?

Quite a lot, I believe.

If we look throughout the Bible, we are constantly being reminded of God’s love for his people, but also his kindness and mercy to them.  Mercy is just another word for kindness I think. 

For the mountains shall depart, and the hills be removed; but my kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed, saith the LORD that hath mercy on thee. (Isaiah 54:10)

Even from the Old Testament we read about his kindness.

But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared,  he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,  whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, (Titus 3:4-6)

But in the New Testament we learn about the kindness and love, which show in his mercy.  The gift of Christ.

Even if he never did anything else for us, that act of salvation was the ultimate in kindness.  Yet he goes beyond this, by saying that in addition to our salvation, we can come before him with our prayers and petitions, which he hears.  How awesome is that???

 

“So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.

“Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead?  Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?  If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” (Luke 11:9-13)

Kindness is…

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.  Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.  Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
(Galatians 5:22-25)

 

So what is kindness as a Fruit of the Spirit?

I think it is very similar to love.  Kindness is like love, that can be seen.  Love must be felt, but kindness is sort of like the active arm of love.

Or something like that.

Wishing someone well, that is love.

Doing something about their needs, that is kindness.

Love is faith, Kindness is actions.

Patience and Perseverance

Patience is not passive, it is active.

It is not about sitting around waiting for something we hope for, it is holding firmly onto faith in that thing.  It is making a daily effort to persevere in our faith.

Our walk is about obedience, daily obedience.  Lifelong obedience.

And patience to stay the course.

Selah

Be Still.

Know.

He IS God.

Growing Patience

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.
(James 1:2-3)

I think that with the exception of Love, this might be the scariest area to be grown in.  God grows love by putting us with unlovely people.  And he grows patience by putting us in situations where we are tempted to not be patient.

Temptation often starts when we are drawn to something (desire) and ends when we give in to that desire (action).  The purpose of patience is learning not to give into that desire, or to seek its fulfilment elsewhere. 

For years I desired a suitable marriage partner, which is a noble desire.  However the temptation was to look for that person in the wrong place, or to accept someone who was less suited for me.  I had to have patience, and faith, that God had the perfect person planned for me.  And he did.  I could never have found a more perfect wife than the one I have if I had tried for 100 years.  I was patient, and God rewarded that patience.

Of course God also throws bad drivers and annoying clients in my path daily in an effort to teach me about patience in those areas, and I am still learning.

Patience grows in our lives as we let go of trying to find our own solutions to problems, and seek God’s solutions.  This is why it is linked to faith, because if we can’t accept that there is a solution, we might be tempted to go our own way.

God’s Patience

We want to talk about patience.  Think for a minute about God’s patience.  With us.

We are told throughout the Bible, right from Genesis through Revelation, that God is long-suffering and merciful.  The Bible is the story of how his people turn away from him, again and again.

Yet he is patient, and slow to anger.  And when they are ready to turn back to Him, he is ready to receive them with open arms.

God’s patience is about delaying wrath long enough for repentance and forgiveness.

Isn’t that the kind of patience we should be looking to have as well?

 

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
2 Peter 3:9

Patience is…

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,patience, …
(Galatians 5:22-25)

So what is this patience thing we hear about, and how is it a fruit of the Spirit?

We usually associate patience with being patient with others, and I think that is part of it.  But it is more than just putting up with your neighbours.

Patience can also mean perseverance.  Patiently waiting and hoping.  Christianity is a long walk, not a quick fix.  Growing fruit in our lives is a day by day process that will take our entire lives.

We need to have patience with this.  We need to wake up each day and say “I am not there yet, but I am getting there.  I will do what needs to be done today.”

Patience is about active faith.  Having faith that things will work out, having faith that God is in control, having faith that we are on the right path, and moving towards the right goal.

All this is patience.

Because faith grows fruit, but it takes time.

How to grow Peace

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
(Philippians 4:7)

We are promised peace a lot in the Bible, but are we told how to get it?

Yes.  Have a look at this verse, and see if you can spot the important word here…

…AND

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

This verse is not just a promise of peace, but shows us that the verses that come before it must give some clue as to how to grow peace.  It is a promise that if we do what comes before, we will have peace.

So I guess we better look at this passage a little closer.

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.  Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
(Philippians 4:4-9)

So what do we need to do?

• Set our mind on God.
• Read, prayer, meditate on his Word. 
• Focus our mind on Spiritual things.

If we do this, then the peace of God will be ours, and the God of peace will be with us every step of the way.

Peace with…

God’s peace, the fruit of the Spirit, is different from the world’s peace.  It involves more than the absence of conflict or fear, it involves three positive forms of Peace.

Peace with God.

Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him! For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
Romans 5:1-11

 

Peace with Man.

For he himself is our peace, who has made the two one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, by abolishing in his flesh the law with its commandments and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new man out of the two, thus making peace, and in this one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility.He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.

Ephesians 2:14-18

 

Peace with Self.

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:7

God’s Peace

God is all about peace.  Jesus is the Prince of Peace.  Peace is a huge attribute of God, and our relationship with Him.

So what does it mean to have God’s Peace.

God is always at peace, because:

• He knows that the world is going according to His plan.
• He knows who is in control of everything.
• He knows who He is, and does not try to be something He is not.
• He knows that as bad as things appear, He is always close to His people.

Having the Spiritual Fruit of Peace requires us to have faith in the same thing.  To take on this certainty of God, and make it our own, through the prompting and promise of Holy Spirit

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

We are told that the peace we have when we are in the Spirit is not the World’s peace, which is dependant on circumstances; but God’s peace which is dependant on our faith, and doing what we are taught.  We are not told that we will not be troubled or afraid, we are told not to be troubled or afraid. 

God’s peace is not the world’s peace.

It is better, because nobody can take it away from us.

Selah

Stop.

Listen.

That is why we are doing this.

Peace is…

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, …
(Galatians 5:22)

What is peace?

We often think of peace in the negative sense.  For instance as being the absence of conflict, or not being in turmoil.

But the Bible talks about peace as being a positive thing.  It connect peace with spiritual fruit, and in fact the New Testament is full of promises of peace, yet also promises of conflict.  So we need to look at peace as being more than just quiet.  (Jesus told us we will face struggles and persecution, but he also told us he left us his peace.)

I think spiritual peace is closely connected to faith.  Without faith, we have no peace.  With no peace, our faith is meaningless.

Over the next few days we will look at this in more details.

Where is our Joy.

So what do we find Joy in?  What motivates us to pray and seek to give thanks as we are instructed?

I find joy in three things:

1. Through the creator of the Universe I know that I am loved beyond all measure and reason… regardless of my actions.
2. Through Jesus I know that I have salvation and eternal life.
3. Through the Holy Spirit and His work in my life, I know that God is always with me and I will never be left unable to face what is before me.

How does it get any better than that?

How do we grow Joy?

We talked about the fact that fruit needs to be grown.  So how do we grow fruit of joy in our life?

Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
(1 Thessalonians 5:16-19)

 

This is a fairly well known passage, and I would hazard an opinion that it is not only the instruction, but also the teaching on how to accomplish it.

Be joyful always? How?

By…

• Praying continually
• Giving thanks in all circumstance.

If we are faced with circumstances where joy is not our first response, then our first response needs to be to bring it to the Lord.
Then, we need to have faith that it is part of his plan for our lives, and give thanks.

It does not say we need to give thanks for all circumstance, but that we must give thanks to Him in all circumstance.

This is how we will know that it is God’s will.  And if it is God’s will, then we can have joy in that fact.